
There is a common misunderstanding that therapy is for people who are broken. But therapy isn’t a repair shop — it’s a safe space to discover yourself with more compassion, clarity, and understanding.
You don’t go to therapy because something is wrong with you.
You go because something within you deserves deeper care.
Our past experiences shape the way we love, trust, react, and protect ourselves. Sometimes those patterns make life harder than it needs to be. Therapy helps you understand those patterns — not so you can judge them, but so you can heal the parts of you that created them.
In relationships, therapy can:
• Help you communicate what you truly feel
• Support you in setting healthy boundaries
• Teach you to recognize red flags and green flags
• Build trust where fear once lived
• Heal attachment wounds that affect intimacy
Therapy is an act of self-love.
It’s saying:
“I deserve to understand myself.”
“I deserve to be heard wholly.”
“I deserve a life that doesn’t feel like survival.”
It honours all the versions of you — the strong one, the hurting one, the one who feels lost sometimes. And it gently guides those parts home to each other.
Healing isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about remembering who you were before the world taught you to forget.
Therapy doesn’t change your worth — it changes your awareness of it. It helps you move past the pain to live in the now.
Dr.Yaz Headley